4 Rules for Living by Lou Holtz

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Rule #1 – Do right. “Just do the right thing,” Lou says. “We’ve all done dumb things and wish we hadn’t done them, but you can’t go through life with an albatross around your neck saying, ‘I made a mistake.’ Say you’re sorry, make amends and move on.”

Rule #2  “I think it’s wrong to be bitter. We all have a reason to be bitter. We’ve all had injustices done to us by society, by a spouse, by a friend, but you can’t go through life being bitter. We’re always blaming someone else. Wherever we are it’s because of the choices we make.”

Rule #3 – Do everything to the best of your ability with the time allotted. Lou says: “Not everybody will be an All-American. Not everybody will be first team. Not everybody will be great. But everybody can do the best they can with the time allotted.”

Rule #4 – Show people you care. I have seen this rule in action many times. Lou is constantly asking people, “How can I help you? How can I assist you?” And he means it. He has a deep-down burning desire to help people.

   Please share some you have found for some fresh inspiration to face the New Year without fear and regrets.

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1. The Power of Attitude:

The attitude you choose to assume toward life and everything it brings you will determine whether you realize your aspirations. What you are capable of achieving is determined by your talent and ability. What you attempt to do is determined by your motivation. How well you do something is determined by your attitude.

2. Tackle Adversity:

You are going to be knocked down. I have been on top and I have been on the bottom. To achieve success, you are going to have to solve problems. If you react positively to them, you will be stronger than ever. If you react to setbacks more quickly and positively, you gain a distinct advantage. I have never encountered a person who achieved anything worthwhile that did not require overcoming obstacles.

3. Have a Sense of Purpose:

Understand what you are trying to do. Stay completely focused on your primary purpose. Do not get sidetracked. Give a first rate performance every day.

4. Make Sacrifices:

You can not be successful without making sacrifices. Most losing organizations are overpopulated with people who constantly complain about life and their difficulties. They will drain your enthusiasm and energy. Take pride in making sacrifices and having self - discipline.

5. Adapt or Die:

Things are always changing, so embrace the fact that your life and career are always in transition. Yes, you will achieve goals, but do not fall into the trap of not thinking you do not need to go further. Even when you reach the top, remember to stay focused on the fundamentals.

6. Chase Your Dreams:

All great accomplishments start with a dream. Dreams fuel your enthusiasm and your vision. They will give you the burning desire to get up and achieve.

7. Nurture Your Self-Image:

A positive self-image grows out of having strong character. To be trustworthy, committed to excellence and to show care for others are the underpinnings of a successful person.

8. Foster Trust:

Relationships are based on trust. Many people have ruined tremendous opportunity because they did not have the discipline and decency to do what is right. Continually ask yourself, Is this the right thing to do? Do what you feel is right regardless of peer pressure or personal desires. Success and confidence will follow close behind.

9. Commit to Excellence:

Do everything to the best of your ability. Everyone wants to be associated with people who set and maintain high standards. When you lower your standards, you only invite mediocrity.

10. Handle With Care:

Treat others as you would like to be treated.

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I was unfamiliar with Mr Holtz before reading this thread. I talked about it with Mr R. & tonight while he & our Grandson were watching sports they had me look @ & listen to Mr Holtz. It seems he's a very wise man, thanks for bringing him to my attention, BBean.