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Post by capncrunch on Jul 16, 2011 13:53:06 GMT -6
All I really can say is how sad. I did recognize the lady's picture in the paper and know that I have seen here some where but that is all i can say.
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Post by Hellonlinks on Jul 16, 2011 13:53:53 GMT -6
Heavenly Father As so many are in shock and filled with lack of understanding that such a tragedy of loss of lives has occurred I pray for those who are lost in fear and wonder of what may have caused the circumstances of the loss of these lives and has caused such pain suffering and sorrow for so many Lord I ask you bring peace and comfort to the hearts and souls of those who are suffering during their time of sorrow and grief Father only You know the reasons of what has happened and it is through You Lord there will be comfort understanding and peace For this Lord I come to you and humbly ask for Your guidance in all words spoken for which the family and loved ones who have sustained this great loss hear and they should gain comfort and peace You Father are our creator and redeemer of our souls As I ask for these blessings of comfort and peace for all who are hurting I pray you hear the goodness that is truly meant in each and every prayer said It's in Your Son Jesus Christs name we pray amen I second all that.......................... great post and prayer I third that!!!
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Great Dane
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Post by Great Dane on Jul 16, 2011 13:56:03 GMT -6
I wish I had something to say but I don't. I assume God is not on Gary's list of best friends right now. He will cry with anger the rest of his life. Try to realize how you would feel if it happen in your family. Wanting it to go away. Wanting people to stop talking about it. Wanting to wake up and find out it's a bad nightmare. Not wanting to hear the words I'm sorry anymore. This is how I felt when I lost my wife to cancer and 5 years later I still have these feelings. It's like half of me died and the other half running around not knowing what to do. His is this x3. For him to ever,ever move on. We need to make the first step and let it go......Let it go.....Let it go away
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Post by nextofkin on Jul 16, 2011 13:58:35 GMT -6
I wish I had something to say but I don't. I assume God is not on Gary's list of best friends right now. He will cry with anger the rest of his life. Try to realize how you would feel if it happen in your family. Wanting it to go away. Wanting people to stop talking about it. Wanting to wake up and find out it's a bad nightmare. Not wanting to hear the words I'm sorry anymore. This is how I felt when I lost my wife to cancer and 5 years later I still have these feelings. It's like half of me died and the other half running around not knowing what to do. His is this x3. For him to ever,ever move on. We need to make the first step and let it go......Let it go.....Let it go away That's why he will need GOD the most now and all our prayer's.
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Post by strivingangel91 on Jul 16, 2011 14:33:18 GMT -6
All I really can say is how sad. I did recognize the lady's picture in the paper and know that I have seen here some where but that is all i can say. She worked at the hair cuttery out next to krogers. I thought the same exact thing as you and looked into it. Last time I went in to get my hair done she did it.
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Post by oldtimer on Jul 16, 2011 14:43:46 GMT -6
only one reason why,it is because of the economy ,jobs being lost ,hunger,unable to pay bills,cannot get medical treatment ect. she was probably extremely stressed out,and just snapped. this i would blame the politicians for their negligence on getting the economy out of the recession. Deep thoughts from someone who failed the Walmart test three times. Seriously, give it up
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Post by stormchaser on Jul 16, 2011 17:29:11 GMT -6
This is the last thing this family needs right now. This man lost his ENTIRE world. I cannot believe some of these posts I am reading. I understand what these forums are about but seriously? Conclusion: "OPINIONS ARE LIKE ACEHOLES, EVERYONE HAS ONE." We just have to ignore the ignorant comments and keep praying for this family in a time of need. There's a difference between being insensitive and discussing an item of concern to the entire area. What people fail to realize is that something awful happened and people are talking about it. There are discussions and questions raging from Facebook, to coffee shops, to dinner tables to other online venues. Authorities have released limited information that apparently paints the scenario as a "murder-suicide" (in their words, not mine). The newspapers and TV stations are also reporting on this. So while his original thoughts may have been written in a somewhat bellicose manner, BB's point is valid - there is nothing wrong with discussing an incident that is a matter of public record now and one in which people are asking questions and searching for answers. There's a difference between discussion and speculation verses tactless comments made in poor taste. However, unfortunate as it may seem, whenever something awful happens like this some people always assume that ANY and all forms of discussion outside of something akin to a prayer or thought for the family is unwarranted, and I have to respectfully disagree. I do agree that butter has the constitutional right to say what he wants, the same as the Hillsboro Baptist Church does to disrupt funerals of fallen soldiers but the rest of us also have the constitutional right to express disgust at their actions. I feel real bad for the family and friends, some who are on here. So I will exercise my constitutional right to tell butter to shut up and leave these people alone.
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Post by newmommy23 on Jul 16, 2011 18:30:49 GMT -6
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Post by strivingangel91 on Jul 16, 2011 18:53:28 GMT -6
I'm appalled and disgusted about the whole situation. I'm just waiting for the release of what happened. All we have is speculation, it could have been a numerous of different things that happened. We don't know if anybody broke in, if she did it, ect. That is MY concern. I won't believe that she did it until I see them say it. After the dalton situation it's really hard to say. All I do know is my heart goes out to the family and friends. This has to be one of the hardest things to go through.
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Post by kaycee on Jul 16, 2011 19:16:27 GMT -6
Being this is such a horrible tragedy, all any of us can do is pray for strength and peace for the survivors. Truth is no one will ever know why it happened. There probably was stress and many factors. No one knows what goes on behind closed doors and no one knows what a person thinks about. There were innocent victims and the survivors have alot to live with. Everyone needs our prayers to get some peace in order to go on. No bashing, no guessing, even the truth is no ones business. The survivors have a very hard road ahead and need the communities support. I will pray for everyone to gain the strength and peace they need, no matter what the story is (truth or rumors). Truth is, only 1 person knows what led to this and she can't share her story.
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Post by strivingangel91 on Jul 16, 2011 19:22:23 GMT -6
Being this is such a horrible tragedy, all any of us can do is pray for strength and peace for the survivors. Truth is no one will ever know why it happened. There probably was stress and many factors. No one knows what goes on behind closed doors and no one knows what a person thinks about. There were innocent victims and the survivors have alot to live with. Everyone needs our prayers to get some peace in order to go on. No bashing, no guessing, even the truth is no ones business. The survivors have a very hard road ahead and need the communities support. I will pray for everyone to gain the strength and peace they need, no matter what the story is (truth or rumors). Truth is, only 1 person knows what led to this and she can't share her story. Right there is speculation. Everyone assumes she was the one who did it. They never have came out to say that she was indeed the one who did it. I don't care for the details, but that is something very crucial for our community to know. If she didn't do it, then that means somebody else is walking our community who did. That is why I'm concerned. I'm not going to bash the mom, I'm not going to bash the family. I'm not going to say my exact view on what I think happened. But this is something that we ALL should keep in mind because it is a possibility until they confirm otherwise.
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Post by strivingangel91 on Jul 16, 2011 19:25:10 GMT -6
I also retract my statement....reread the article.
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Post by BTrendy on Jul 16, 2011 19:33:33 GMT -6
So am I. I have read several DIFFERENT quotes out of this man's mouth, and they were all very 'off'. I have refrained from commenting on this thread, but now that I have, God be with you Gary, my friend.
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Post by usafmike76 on Jul 16, 2011 21:01:50 GMT -6
So am I. I have read several DIFFERENT quotes out of this man's mouth, and they were all very 'off'. I have refrained from commenting on this thread, but now that I have, God be with you Gary, my friend. you know I hate this board but I have to comment. That stupid SOB needs to lose his job. seriously. That is so inappropriate and eff'd up I just don't have words to explain it. It speaks for itself I've never in my life read such an insensitive quote about a tragedy like this. To think this idiot is a public educator explains a lot of whats wrong w/ our education system.
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Post by hawk on Jul 16, 2011 21:22:07 GMT -6
Give the school principal a break people. For one this is a very touchy situation. Nobody knows what to say in a situation like this. you can see he has a tough time finding the right words for the question. He didnt want to put his foot in his mouth. He couldve said something a lot worse.
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