Post by starsbynight01 on Jul 16, 2011 7:57:40 GMT -6
I have a question..
do any of you have friends that wont go anywhere without their mate?
I am kinda upset right now
I had asked a friend to go with me to a Dr.'s appt out of town..
only because I wont be able to drive home
otherwise Id go by myself like I already have..no biggie!
It is not too far...
only about 1 1/2 hrs away and VERY easy to get to..
pretty much a straight shot!!!
well she wont go cause her mate cant go that day
she asked me to change my appt day so they both could go with me
she said "well you will be drowsy & wont be able to help me drive home" I told her its a straight shot..cant go wrong..355 to 55..
then she said well if both of us go then I will be there to help you if you need anything & I wont be driving
so I try to change my appt..no go..
but the thing is, the one day she wanted me to change it to she couldnt go but she said her mate would take me..and when we got back she would come over & stay with me
Im thinking huh? well who will be there for me as you previously said? why you couldnt take me alone...lol..
so I knew she just didnt want to do it..ok no problem
but I am not stupid & dont like being lied to or mislead..
I feel if you dont want to do it just say so..
BUT! just this year she asked me to go with her to her Dr.'s appt OUT OF STATE..
I went of course..anything for a friend..and I didnt say..change the day..time..so my mate can go..
Geezzz its only for a few hrs..
I am also bummed cause I just got this friend a job as well
and she stopped over after work yesterday & asked if I was able to change my appt day & I told her no & she says..
well I cant take you on Tuesday I am committed to work Tuesday..lol..
and this is not a new friend..Ive known her since early 90's..
am I wrong to feel this way?
do any of you have friends that wont go anywhere without their mate?
I am kinda upset right now
I had asked a friend to go with me to a Dr.'s appt out of town..
only because I wont be able to drive home
otherwise Id go by myself like I already have..no biggie!
It is not too far...
only about 1 1/2 hrs away and VERY easy to get to..
pretty much a straight shot!!!
well she wont go cause her mate cant go that day
she asked me to change my appt day so they both could go with me
she said "well you will be drowsy & wont be able to help me drive home" I told her its a straight shot..cant go wrong..355 to 55..
then she said well if both of us go then I will be there to help you if you need anything & I wont be driving
so I try to change my appt..no go..
but the thing is, the one day she wanted me to change it to she couldnt go but she said her mate would take me..and when we got back she would come over & stay with me
Im thinking huh? well who will be there for me as you previously said? why you couldnt take me alone...lol..
so I knew she just didnt want to do it..ok no problem
but I am not stupid & dont like being lied to or mislead..
I feel if you dont want to do it just say so..
BUT! just this year she asked me to go with her to her Dr.'s appt OUT OF STATE..
I went of course..anything for a friend..and I didnt say..change the day..time..so my mate can go..
Geezzz its only for a few hrs..
I am also bummed cause I just got this friend a job as well
and she stopped over after work yesterday & asked if I was able to change my appt day & I told her no & she says..
well I cant take you on Tuesday I am committed to work Tuesday..lol..
and this is not a new friend..Ive known her since early 90's..
am I wrong to feel this way?